Do you have the Right Mindset for Dating?
If you have the right mindset for dating it is going to be easier, more pleasant, and more likely to yield you the results you actually want.
The trip five things to keep in mind if you want the right mindset for dating are:
Don’t make a deal-breaker list with details like height, job title, and musical taste. If you know yourself and why you want a relationship to begin with, these things will either matter and align or not depending on the whole person.
Casually Coaching Strangers Podcast:
Chatting with a caller about her dating mindset.
2. Believe in the Possibility
Pro-tip: Edge your thoughts towards the most abundant belief you can actually believe in your gut. The more you believe in the possibility, the higher the probability that you get into action.
3. Get into Action
You might just change things a little but notice a dramatically different result. For example, if you are online dating and focused on a belief that all of the men are imbeciles, you will have a vastly different experience than if you are focused on the thought that there is an awesome guy that you will stumble upon soon. And it’s much less exhausting and demoralizing.
4. Take off your Judgy Mindset Pants
If you catch yourself judging someone, a great way to check-in to see if this judgment is warranted is to turn it around on yourself. For example, if you complain that someone was boring, ask yourself, do you think that to them you were riveting? Pro-tip: If you feel defensive, chances are this is stemming from insecurity.
5. Don’t be an Asshole to Yourself
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